Life as a busy mom can feel like a constant cycle of cleaning, picking up, and managing an endless to-do list. That constant cycle is enough to wear you down, trust me I was there. So I want to share something that has helped me time and time again—a daily reset. No matter what season of motherhood you’re in—whether you have toddlers, school-age kids or teens—a reset can be a game-changer. And the best part? You don’t have to wait until the end of the day (or worse, the weekend) to get your home back in order.

That’s where the power of a daily reset comes in. A simple reset—done in small, intentional steps throughout the day—can prevent mess and chaos from taking over, leaving you with a home that feels lighter and a mind that feels calmer. I try to do 3-4 small resets a day: one in the morning, one in the afternoon, one after dinner and one before bed. Do I hit all four every single day? No, but at least two to three resets usually happen, and that makes all the difference.

What is a Daily Reset?

A daily reset is a short, intentional time (no more than 15 minutes) dedicated to resetting your space, whether it’s the kitchen after a meal, the living room after playtime or even your mindset after a stressful moment. The key is to make it a habit rather than letting things pile up and overwhelm you. This is why we do a load of laundry every single day, because I can’t stand having it piled up. Or why we run our dishwasher every day, those little things help keep our home intact. 

This habit has saved me from spending my entire Saturday cleaning—giving me more time to enjoy with my family. My resets help me maintain order while still allowing life to happen in our home. I don’t ever feel like all I’m doing is cleaning and that’s good because cleaning isn’t one of my favorite things to do. 

The Benefits of a Daily Reset

• Less Overwhelm: Instead of tackling a huge mess at the end of the day, resets help keep things manageable.
• More Peace: Walking into a tidy space reduces stress and makes your home feel more inviting.
• Increased Productivity: A clutter-free space allows you to focus better on what truly matters.
• Easier Cleaning: Regular resets prevent deep-cleaning marathons, making house maintenance more manageable.
• Less Clutter: Especially for kids, a clutter-free space allows for clearer thinking and less stress. This is particularly important for children with ADHD, as too much visual clutter can be overstimulating and overwhelming.

How to Implement a Daily Reset in Your Home

1. Set Reset Times

Schedule mini-resets at key points in the day. Examples include:

• Morning Reset: Make the beds, put breakfast dishes away, wipe counters and start a load of laundry.
• Afternoon Reset: Tidy up the playroom, put homeschool/school stuff away 
• Evening Reset: Wipe down kitchen counters, put away stray items, vacuum and prepare for the next day.

For me, my morning reset happens right before breakfast and my afternoon reset is usually after homeschooling before I start my work. My evening reset is my way of winding down for the night.

2. Focus on High-Traffic Areas

Instead of trying to reset the whole house at once, focus on areas that tend to get messy quickly, such as:

• Kitchen counters
• Living room clutter
• Entryway mess
• Bathrooms

For example, my kitchen reset includes clearing the counters, loading the dishwasher,wiping things down and vacuuming the floor. It doesn’t have to be deep cleaning—just enough to keep things from getting out of control. The kids and I take turns vacuuming the downstairs, if it’s not that dirty I’ll have the kids do it and if it needs a really good vacuum, I will do it or Jimmy if he’s home. 

3. Make It a Family Effort

Resets don’t have to fall on your shoulders. Get the whole family involved by assigning small tasks:

• Kids can put toys away before bedtime.
• Older kids can help reset the living room after homework or playtime.
• Your spouse can pitch in with kitchen clean-up after dinner.

I involve my kids by giving them simple tasks like picking up their toys or wiping down surfaces. Not only does it make the reset easier, but it also teaches them responsibility and the importance of maintaining a tidy home.

4. Use a Timer

A reset doesn’t have to take forever! Set a timer for 5-15 minutes and see how much you can accomplish. This keeps you from getting distracted and makes the task feel achievable. Seriously, a 5-minute reset can do wonders for you. My kids love having a timer set for a task. 

5. Reset Your Mindset Too

A daily reset isn’t just about your home—it’s also about your mindset. My mental resets happen after homeschooling and again before bed. Taking a few minutes for yourself can make a big impact.

Here are a few ways to reset your mind:

• Take deep breaths and refocus.
• Write down a gratitude list.
• Step outside for fresh air.
• Give yourself permission to pause and reset emotionally.

Even something as simple as taking a few deep breaths while sipping coffee can help shift my mindset and prepare me for the next part of the day.

Final Thoughts

A simple daily reset can be a game-changer for both your home and your well-being. By tackling small messes before they spiral out of control and taking intentional moments to reset your mind, you create a home that feels peaceful and a life that feels more in control. Try implementing just one or two resets each day and see how much of a difference it makes!

Are you ready to start your daily reset routine? Let me know in the comments what time of day works best for you!

Love and Support,

Billie-Jo

The Simplified Mom